Alright, but none of that was really relevant to this comment. Why are you soapboxing on it?

As usual on Lemmy, the answer is just for women to shut up and listen to what the men want

Yes, trying to warn other women about a man you dated who abused you or gave off weird vibes is definitely the same as getting your nudes or porn video of yourself leaked against your will onto the public internet for everyone to see

The app required ID uploads ostensibly to verify that you were a woman signing up, men were not allowed to join for obvious reasons