• brygphilomena@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 days ago

    Yep. This is one of those hard lines for me. And I feel like it’s a red flag for anyone who demands it from a partner.

    I trust my partner and they trust me. I actively encourage them to do things without me, because I want them to be an independent person. I want them to have friends that I don’t hang out with.

    • panicnow@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      I comment in a different part of this thread how my spouse and just share everything, but I complete get what you are saying.